My late husband Doug Zimmerman used to joke that “Bluebirding is my life.” (Doug joked a lot about a lot of things.) In reality, I knew Doug bluebirded for me.
In 1998, a friend and colleague at Brookhaven National Laboratory gave me a bluebird nestbox, made by Boy Scouts in Long Island. I whined until Doug set it up in the backyard. (We had about 4 acres in rural Northeastern Connecticut.)He mounted that first birdhouseimproperly, on a broken golf club (there were alot of broken things around Doug) duct-taped to a fencepost. We didn’thave a cluewhat we were doing back then.
My home office upstairs looked down over the backyard and the box. The very first winter that I spent in Woodstock, I saw an Eastern Bluebird by the box! My first thought was to call Doug so he could see it too.
After that flash of blue, I was hooked. Doug and my sister once asked me why people get so goopy over bluebirds. Iwrote an article about itfor them.
I think Doug got a bit infected too. He would often call me outside to see the first migrants in February or aflockin the winter. While I was away on work travel, he kept our feeders stocked withmealwormsfor the backyard favorite blues. He did the messy part ofhomemade suetmixing. He learned to tell aHouse Wrenfrom aCarolina Wren. He set and dragged myHouse Sparrowtraps around. (House Sparrows arenot native. They attack and kill bluebirds.) If he put a trap out himself and caught a male, he made sure that he got a “reward.” When we caught some, he did the terminator thing for me before we delivered them to local raptor recovery center. He patiently listened to endless bluebird blather.
By 2010, we were up to almost 100 boxes onbluebird trailsthroughout town, including some abandoned boxes that we adopted and Doug repaired. Our goal was to fill the skies of the Quiet Corner with blue.
Doug was a busy guy – he never stopped working around “This Old House.” Sometimes it was hard for him to take time away from chores and alternative fun options to accompany me whilemonitoringthetrails. (It is important to check boxes 1-2 times a week during active nesting season, in order to protect the birds we invite to nest, to try toprevent problems, and to gather data.)
But I wanted to be with him as much as possible – away from the housework, sharing the outdoors together. I knew that life could be short. We had already spent too much time apart because of my early inability to make a commitment (he waited for me for eight years before I was ready to marry) and my job. I also relied heavily on his handyman skills. I can’t swing a maul, and am useless with tools. Doug could fix just about anything.
So, I usually dragged him along with me. Generally, he was pretty accommodating. We would laugh, chat, and do errands along the way. We often enjoyed a little snack or picnic, complete with tasty beverage, inthe parkor up on theclosed landfillwhere we maintained boxes. We also went to a number of bluebird conferences together. We combined those trips with other adventures.
- San Antonio, TX–North American Bluebird Society(NABS 2006). We got to meet a “virtual friends” I had emailed with for help about bluebirding, including some of my personal bluebirding heroes. Doug thought the best part was flying first class. (I had racked up quite a few frequent flyer miles traveling for work.) He was awed that we were allowed to start drinking while still on the tarmac. On the way there, we put together a slide show game called “Bluepardy” (a variation of Jeopardy with bluebirding questions.) Doug played the game show host (he was a hilarious ham.) He dubbed me Vanna Blue. I also gave a talk onHouse Sparrowcontrol that Doug helped me develop. I learned on a field trip that Doug got sick on buses (we had never been on one together). We walked the riverwalk and toured old houses in the downtown historic district. We celebrated my 50th birthday there. Doug gave me a beautiful blue topaz necklace. He picked because it was blue, like bluebirds.
- Pennsylvania Bluebird Society annual meeting in 2007. We were invited to do a rerun of Bluepardy. Doug got scared when a (verbal) fight broke out over one of the answers. He never understood why people got so crazed over certain bluebirding topics.
- Kearny Nebraskain 2006. We decided to go at the last minute after hearing that I would be receiving the John and Nora Lane award from NABS for outstanding contributions to bluebird conservation (for my bluebirding website,Sialis.org. And no, it’s not named for the erectile dysfunction drug –sialisis part of the scientific name for the Eastern Bluebird –Sialia sialis.) The flight was expensive, but Doug said we couldn’t miss it. We got to see hoardes of migrating Sand Hill cranes.
- Pennsylvania (NABS 2009). After the conference, we headed off to camp in West Virginia – our last annual anniversary trip. We had planned to spend the whole time exploring PA, but gotkicked out of a campgroundbecause we had our indoor cat with us.
During those conferences, others didn’t get a chance to be with him much because I usually hogged him. I could never get enough time with him. He is the only person I have ever known that I never grew tired of.
Sometimes I did go out on the trails by myself, especially in the spring and summer of 2010, in order to lighten Doug’s load. But it was always more fun to bluebird with him. He was incredibly supportive. Hecheered me upmany times whenthings went wrong. On occasion, he did trudge, especially after he went onblood pressure medication, which made him feel rotten. I teased him that he needed more “spring in his sproing” while we were out and about. He usually complied.
He and I travelled together one last time in the hearse on the way to the crematorium. I did not want him to go alone. The kind funeral director offered to drive us by one of our trails. There is a bluebird I callBrave Blue. This particular female always sits tightly on her eggs and young while I open the box. She is probably protecting her offspring from House Sparrows that abound in that area. Her photo (one of my all time favorites) graces thehome pageof my bluebird conservation website. That day, Brave Blue flew straight and true, right in front of the hearse as we passed by her box.
After losing Doug, I considered abandoning my trails. But I realized that would be irresponsible. It would also mean giving up on something we had built together. Plus I knew I would miss it.
Doug told me once that what he liked best about bluebirding was the look on my face when I opened a box and found a good surprise inside. He knew how much joy bluebirding brought me. He did it all for me because he loved me. He wasmy hero. I’m glad I never took his help, or him, forgranted.
May all your blues be birds.
MORE INFORMATION atSialis.org
- You can set up a nestbox/donate one in memory of your loved one. Read more.
- For Doug, My Hero
- Videos of Doug related to bluebirding
- Welcome to the Mouse House
- The Shootist
- San Antonio, April 2006(bluebird conference)
- Starting a bluebird trail
- Nestbox Monitoring – Why and How
- Woodstock Landfill is for the Birds
- NABS 2006 – San Antonio (photos)|Notes
- NABS 2008 – Kearney, NE: Photos|Notes
- Welcome to Pennsylvania – Now Get Out!
- The Downside of Bluebirding
- Running, Syncope, Arrhythmia and Sudden Cardiac Death during Exercise
- The Sun Will Come Up Tomorrow(video clip of Doug singing badly). I only have a few videos of Doug – most are of nestbox contents. This particular clip is quintessential Doug, although it shows a side of him not everyone was lucky enough to see. I think this “performance” was done when I was bummed because I had lost a whole clutch of bluebird eggs (just about to hatch) to aHouse Wrenattack. He was trying to cheer me up. Maybe it will bring you cheer. Crank up the volume.
Donations in honor of Doug’s life may be made to:
- The North American Bluebird Society
- American Alpine Club– 710 10th St Suite 100, Golden, CO 80401:Giving
- Founders of Environmental Earth Science Fund(Eastern CT State University) – c/o ECSU Foundation, 83 Windham St., Willimantic CT 06226
- Woodstock Historical Society– PO Box 65, Woodstock CT 06281. Funds were used to create and maintain theZ Rock & Rain Garden.
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Bluebirding refers to the activity of attracting, monitoring, and conserving bluebirds, particularly the Eastern Bluebird (Sialia sialis). It involves setting up nest boxes, providing suitable habitats, and monitoring the nesting activities of bluebirds [].
Nest boxes, also known as birdhouses, are artificial structures designed to provide nesting sites for birds. They are typically made of wood and have an entrance hole for birds to enter and exit. Nest boxes are commonly used to attract cavity-nesting birds like bluebirds, providing them with a safe place to raise their young [].
The Eastern Bluebird (Sialia sialis) is a small thrush species native to North America. It is known for its vibrant blue plumage and is a popular bird among birdwatchers and bluebird enthusiasts. Eastern Bluebirds are cavity nesters and often use nest boxes provided by humans for nesting [].
House Sparrows (Passer domesticus) are small, non-native birds that are considered invasive in many regions. They compete with native birds for nesting sites and resources, including bluebirds. House Sparrows can be aggressive towards bluebirds and may attack and kill their young. Bluebird enthusiasts often take measures to control House Sparrow populations to protect bluebirds [].
Bluebird trails are a series of nest boxes set up in a specific area to attract and monitor bluebirds. These trails are typically established by individuals or organizations interested in bluebird conservation. Monitoring involves regularly checking the nest boxes for nesting activity, collecting data, and taking measures to protect the birds and their nests [].
Bluebird conferences are gatherings where bluebird enthusiasts, researchers, and conservationists come together to share knowledge, experiences, and research findings related to bluebird conservation. These conferences often include presentations, workshops, and field trips to observe bluebirds and their habitats [].
Bluebird conservation focuses on protecting and increasing the populations of bluebirds through various measures, such as providing suitable nesting habitats, controlling invasive species, and monitoring nesting activities. Bluebird enthusiasts and organizations play a crucial role in promoting bluebird conservation efforts [].
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